To be honest, me and my wife are sharing the burden financially and we started with lets do everything together. We ended up each with their own responsibilities that fall more in the classical male/female categories. But I expect that once the kids grow a bit we are going to move back to doing everything together. My grandma was telling me that my grandpa was to ashamed to hold the babies in public, I do not want to go back to that. This is the part of feminism that I liked and I think it helped relationships, what I do not like is when they started to go nuts with being anti-men, with false narratives to put men down, to look at history and reality with a one sided lens where patriarchy is the root of all evil. It has created a lot of man hating women that actually believe the patriarchy is out to get them, an evil Sauron acting in the shadows. And a lot of young man have to deal with this man hating harpies.
To be honest, me and my wife are sharing the burden financially and we started with lets do everything together. We ended up each with their own responsibilities that fall more in the classical male/female categories. But I expect that once the kids grow a bit we are going to move back to doing everything together. My grandma was telling me that my grandpa was to ashamed to hold the babies in public, I do not want to go back to that. This is the part of feminism that I liked and I think it helped relationships, what I do not like is when they started to go nuts with being anti-men, with false narratives to put men down, to look at history and reality with a one sided lens where patriarchy is the root of all evil. It has created a lot of man hating women that actually believe the patriarchy is out to get them, an evil Sauron acting in the shadows. And a lot of young man have to deal with this man hating harpies.
Imagine the communist hellhole that disrespected men for caring for their children.
Was called Romania and it was considered very unmanly to do that.