Why Young Men Are Giving Up
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It's actually pretty easy to become her psychologist IF two conditions are met:
You get past the initial "wall" that women put in front of 99% of men (anyone but chads/tyrones)
You don't mind being her fucking emotional tampon, and also having to endure a barrage of endless trite garbage, and still having to validate her "feelings" no matter what.
Trust me, 2 in particular gets draining, FAST. You can get 1 quite consistentally with some practive, but part 2 is where I'd give up. It gets incredibly tiresome to listen to her prattle and complain and bitch sometimes in totally ersatz ways. And then you have to step on your ego and make her feel better (women work by feelings) even if you feel like you're steeping on your own soul. Long term, it destroys you.
But that being said, I'd say a good 95% of attractive women are seriously messed up "up there." As in, mass anxiety (80%+ of women), depression, self-loathing, harming themselves, borderline, whatever you want.
As for BDSM, it's mostly about finding the right place; internet has made this sort of harder, but also sort of easier. I used to have a profile on kink websites and get 0 matches. The key is to make a profile on a paid online dating website and add a lot of "allusions."
For pick-up artists: the core hasn't changed, except women's attention span is now shorter than ever. And you are one "false step" away from being kicked out. It's still about being assertive and making her laugh, except now women are not "all there" meaning in the present, and she'll check her phone every 2 minutes, and most likely text another guy while she's with you; if he makes her laugh more than you, you are out.
Going on hikes, ewk. Don't people have anything better to do?
Speaking for myself - I find women unbearable in general. I teach teenagers and even there, most "women" are unbearable. I get along with male students 100 times better than females. There are a couple of exceptions of course, but I can count on one hand the number of females students I genuinely appreciated, and they tended to be the ones that excelled in my class. Boys on the other hand, I was a model/mentor/guide to at least 50. Not even joking.
Book recommendations, study guides, career advice, even help with their personal projects, games, advanced problems, I've done it all.
That being said, I still date from time to time and the fact I know ahead of time I have to pay for all of her shit pisses me off. I make $18.75 per hour after taxes as a high school teacher. A typical burger and fries here will be $22. Plus taxes and tips, youre looking at $30. For $30, I can literally have burgers for the week. And then I have to pay for her? And she wants a drink too? Easily, the restaurant alone can cost $100. For what? Some distracted women on her phone that already banged 100+ guys and probably sucked some other dudes minutes before we met?
I had one of them bring her kid to the date and expect me to pay for it, it's fucking ridiculous.
As for the girl with her 120k, she is most likely not getting that. We like to joke about it and say some rich guy will "treat" her, but the fact is it's a minimal percentage of women, really.
Sure, a lot of women suck their boyfriend dry and treat him like an ATM, but how much can she reasonably steal from him? You mentionned an oil rig worker before, even an oil rig worker isn't beating 200k a year easily, and that's before taxes. I'd be shocked if most can keep 100k cash per year so at best he can send her a couple of thousands a month (he has to pay rent, etc)
And of course, no woman is worth 10k a month. That's $330 a day and assuming she is awake 16 hours, that's over $20 per hour doing what? Nothing.
If you think she cares about you... lol. It's all fake, and I'd rather be alone. Even if I had that 10k.
I have a personality likes yours, for what matters. Most people don't look further than that. Nor would I want them to anyway.
So, what hope is there for you and I? Maybe oversea women, but I heard bad stuff. Fact is, for me, I'm too old, and the only reason I would bother with a woman is to have kids, but who wants to bring kids into this world? Future Palantir slaves.
The best hope is probably power in numbers... make an account on every dating website, write to 10 women on 10 websites every day. Or go volunteer, do activities outsides. But frankly I have energy for neither
I tried the numbers thing earlier in life. At one point I probably went on dates with 50 different women in a year. There were times I had 3 different dates on the same day. I never liked any of the women. The women were "okay" but their pros never outweighed their cons. I started learning how to filter girls out as I needed adaptation. I was spending way too much money/time trying to find a woman playing the numbers game. By the time I finally figured out how to properly prejudge women on dating apps so I didn't have to go on as many worthless dates, I started getting 0 matches. It turns out, once I knew how to find the women I actually was interested, I learned these women weren't interested in me.
Playing the numbers game is what led me to whores in the first place. I started doing the math and I realized whores were actually cheaper than trying to date free girls in large numbers (playing the numbers game) so I stopped trying to date large quantities of women and just started buying whores. That worked for years but now it's not enough because I don't really want whores but what I want wasn't something I was ever able to get playing the numbers game either.
The reality is I just don't have the genetics for the ability to get what I want from women so at best I can throw some money down to buy a temporary simulation that immitates me getting what I want. I went monk mode for like 2 years where I didn't even look at porn or masturbate the whole time and completely ignored women. I wasn't happy doing that either. Sadly, what would make me happy is getting what I want from women. When I buy whores, I feel great while they're there.
As for the psychologist thing, I can't handle being a woman's emotional outlet for long unless she's sucking my dick. If a girl is giving me what I want sexually, then I can literally put up with anything from her. I have patience for women like no other. But, I've never been able to get over the initial wall women out up and convert it into sex. I always thought having unlimited patience for women would help me get women but I've learned women actually like it when men lose patience with them because that's how they know the man "cares". When see my endless patience as either not caring or as me being stupid or a pussy. I just know wasting time with women's created drama is pointless and women pickup on this and see it almost as misogynistic, which they aren't really wrong. I see dealing with women similar to dealing with a toddler or a dog. They're going to do stupid shit because they don't know any better and it's just how they are. Getting upset over it is thus stupid. But ofc women can perceive I see them as childish/stupid/pointless and hate that about me even though it means I don't get upset at anything they do.