And for the former, this really comes off like asking a gun rights advocate what his favorite way of killing someone is. Yes, yes, I know someone is just itching to shout "guns are Constitutionally Protected and abortion isn't", but let's set that aside for a second.

Nice try. Immediately setting up a straw man to hide the initial error. Asking an abortion rights advocate about their favorite kind of abortion is like asking a gun rights advocate what their favorite kind of gun is. For your your analogy to work, the second person would have to be a "killing people advocate."

Guns can be owned and used without killing. Abortion always entails abortion.