I don't think it's possible to overstate or be nit-picky when it comes to commercials.

Commercials are the absolute most vile, hateful, intentionally anti-white male crap that exists.

If you think you see some bullcrap in a commercial chances are you did and aren't being sensitive.

I shared this video just now with my parents titling it "ah yes, the age old cliche, men being such picky eaters".

So yeah, it's not nitpicky, it's because the idea of women being hard to pick a restaurant was a running joke for decades, so if you see the opposite it is of course intentional.