Usually once a woman has one kid, the mothering instincts kick in and they begin to understand that they should stay home. Many can't, because of economic pressures (hyper inflation forcing everyone to work), but many would prefer to stay home with the kids.

I have female family members like that, that pursued their careers hard core, and then once they had their first kid, they wanted to quit and stay home. There's also lots of evidence of "career" women who want nothing to do with kids, but once they see or hold a baby, they immediately get the baby fever. I've also seen this first hand, with women that swore they never wanted kids.

The propaganda is a deluge 24/7, because it has to be. We're hard coded to our biological roles, and even in the face of that propaganda, it still expressed immediately when even a hint of the truth touches us.