That's because you don't make the effort to meet people and engage in normal conversation that isn't centered around sex. You've never really tried going out in your life to meet others and socialize. You've never done it in your life before. You don't know how to do that and you beg for help on how, but you reject the advice given to you. You force yourself outside, sure, but you have no desire or ability to have simple, basic conversation with others. That's how you meet people, that's how you meet women, that's how you get women to have sex with you.