Fat slobs aren't likely productive members of society. You're exaggerating "having some standards". The men they're with tend to not be quality from what you'd probably gauge quality to be.

Doctors and engineers (real ones) tend not to be the best-looking people, and engineers often aren't the healthiest ones. So what are you selecting for.

I was just at a sex show all weekend

You must be trolling again.

I know the women in the sex industry inside and out.

Here too. Inside?

And at least for these women into this line of work, yeah, dick size gets brought up as a characteristic they care about.

The paradox is that women who talk about dick size with strangers generally aren't quality women.

Who is truly the victim and the exploiter here? Men lose their resources and earn fake care in return.

As the old Soviet adage went: we pretend to work and they pretend to pay us. I'm sure they know that a woman they're paying doesn't actually care about them.