I think most people will agree with this statement on what bar a woman must pass in order to be loved by her husband.

Do two things.

1. Support your husband generally, aka have his back and generally encourage him rather than undermine him or tear him down

2. Respect him, show him respect as a man.

That's it. If a woman does that, 99% of men will love that woman.

It's not exactly a high bar.

Forget love, women don't even pass the bar to be LIKED by men in the modern day. How crazy is that, with a bar that low for unending, soul-mate forever love, modern women are STILL some of the most unlikable and disliked creatures to have ever walked the planet.

No I'm not impossible1, but the old him before dresdonfirebomber wasn't always wrong on everything either.