Everywhere you go you'll always hear and see people talking about or engaging in positive and enjoyable social experiences like it's the most normal thing in the world, and they speak about them as though it's a given that everyone is able to experience while being completely ignorant and dismissive of men like me who are unwanted everywhere I go and hated everywhere I stay. It's absolute torture to see everyone enjoying themselves like this in a way I'd kill to experience all while they're right in front of me. It's just like back in school where every day at lunch I'd be stuck being subjected to seeing others having far more enjoyable lives than me while I was stuck either being alone or at best talking to someone who annoys me. Why can't I have what it seems like comes so easily to everybody else?
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Or just so something relatively minor like go outside for a walk and get the metabolism going rather than just sitting wallowing in both unhealthy thoughts as well as physical states. A single walk won't fix everything, but it can at least help get the brain and body active on it doesn't continue to stew in it's own problems more.
walking leaves me with nothing to think about except dwelling on my problems and I'm probably not in the sort of mental state where I should be spending my days walking next to vehicles that could kill me in an instant if I decided to go headfirst into one of them.
No, taking up a martial art fixes both his physical state and forces social interaction which is probably the more important thing he needs right now.
It doesn't force social interaction. I took martial arts as a kid for years and I didn't meet anybody from that.
You intend to be alone and miserable forever and your actions fulfill that intent. Stop whining about achieving the outcome you've been actively pursuing.
I've been doing everything I can to prevent it