Everywhere you go you'll always hear and see people talking about or engaging in positive and enjoyable social experiences like it's the most normal thing in the world, and they speak about them as though it's a given that everyone is able to experience while being completely ignorant and dismissive of men like me who are unwanted everywhere I go and hated everywhere I stay. It's absolute torture to see everyone enjoying themselves like this in a way I'd kill to experience all while they're right in front of me. It's just like back in school where every day at lunch I'd be stuck being subjected to seeing others having far more enjoyable lives than me while I was stuck either being alone or at best talking to someone who annoys me. Why can't I have what it seems like comes so easily to everybody else?
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We've had this conversation before. You say you'd kill to get a life but you won't even jog to get in shape. You quit a low tier job after a week because it was vaguely hard.
Other people have what you say you want because they actually put in effort and you put in none. It really is that simple.
That's why I'm married to a beauty queen and make well north of six figures, and you're a shut in with no prospects and no job. Because I actually worked for it.
There is also some luck involved. I went from being a complete looser to family with kids, house in a very good neighbourhood were kids can just leave their bikes on the sidewalk, decent savings. I did change a lot but it was more do to my wife and trying to be the husband she deserved that changed me.
To this day I don't know why she went out with me :)
Why do you suppose that was luck? As opposed to the outcome of your choices and actions?
There was no reason for it to happen. I had no job, little prospects, was living with my parents, spent most of my time playing videogames. My wife was the one that asked me out of all things. How often does that happen? I changed after that and not before.
I'm incredibly lucky. I can see people with much more potential that never managed to get a good wife.
Even my house, I managed to buy it at a very low price and now I live in a neighbourhood that is above what I can afford. There is an entire story behind that.
I expect things to even out in the long run but will see.
It seems to me like you never asked her what her rationale was for her actions?
From the sounds of it even when you were a "complete loser" you were still able to get attention from a woman. That's a position in life I'd kill to have.
Dude, no one is taking you serious, just stop
Funny how nobody has ever taken me seriously despite only speaking the truth and remaining consistent for longer than this site has been around.
Nothing I do would change my situation, every time I try to do something it just leads to misery and hours of my life wasted.
You are wrong, and what's more your life is already being wasted. You have nothing to lose and yet you still refuse to try.
Failure is inevitable with that attitude.
Every time I try has been a time consuming failure that lead to nothing.
We've had this conversation before.
You have never seriously tried at anything in your life.
Your time is worthless. Why not get in shape?
You’re just lazy nigga