I don't leave my house because I can't find peers when I go out.
You barely go out. When you do, you keep your head down and you leave as soon as you can. You can't find anyone because you don't look.
why would I keep trying to do the same things that are clearly not working rather than wanting to try something different.
You don't even know what different thing you want to do. You have to figure that out on your own. So many people have offered you help that you refuse to take, so now it's up to you to actually figure out what you want to do.
every time I try my search comes up empty and any time I tell people about this online they call me a liar.
You barely go out. When you do, you keep your head down and you leave as soon as you can. You can't find anyone because you don't look.
I barely go out because every time is a demoralizing experience due to the lack of peers. It just gives me the feeling that I'm looking in the right place, Do you just expect me to loiter around for hours for hours waiting for people to come and go?
You sound like you're just continuing to deny the problem and insisting that I'm somehow not looking hard enough when from the way you and everyone else describe the world I should just be able to go out and encounter the demographics I'm looking for which admittedly DOES seem like how it works in some places but I don't know how to find those places near me. My area seems to be mostly elderly and Mexican which severely limits the ability to connect with anyone. A high population of the wrong demographics are even worse than a tiny population of the right demographics for being able to make peer connections.
You don't even know what different thing you want to do
There's nothing I enjoy and everybody seems to be focusing on the wrong aspects when they give me advice, all of it sounds more like a distraction that will only waste time rather than a targeted solution. Not just that but you keep saying I can just go out at any time and find things to do but my experiences seem to show the opposite.
That's because you are a liar. You lie a lot.
Nope, you just twist my words into seeing me as a liar.
There is no “every time” you’ve done something because you’ve never gone out to just meet people and have casual conversation. That’s what you need to work on. That’s what it takes.
You aren’t trying hard, at all.
You can go out at any time, you are choosing not to.
You blatantly lie. It’s not twisting words, the things you type are blatant lies.
There is no “every time” you’ve done something because you’ve never gone out to just meet people and have casual conversation. That’s what you need to work on. That’s what it takes.
I have tried so many times over the years and can't find the opportunities. I keep trying and looking but I cannot find peers when I look. this has been an issue for most of my life and people always accuse me of lying and tell me that there MUST young people all over doing things. How the fuck am I meant to work on something when I can't even find the opportunities?
You barely go out. When you do, you keep your head down and you leave as soon as you can. You can't find anyone because you don't look.
You don't even know what different thing you want to do. You have to figure that out on your own. So many people have offered you help that you refuse to take, so now it's up to you to actually figure out what you want to do.
That's because you are a liar. You lie a lot.
I barely go out because every time is a demoralizing experience due to the lack of peers. It just gives me the feeling that I'm looking in the right place, Do you just expect me to loiter around for hours for hours waiting for people to come and go?
You sound like you're just continuing to deny the problem and insisting that I'm somehow not looking hard enough when from the way you and everyone else describe the world I should just be able to go out and encounter the demographics I'm looking for which admittedly DOES seem like how it works in some places but I don't know how to find those places near me. My area seems to be mostly elderly and Mexican which severely limits the ability to connect with anyone. A high population of the wrong demographics are even worse than a tiny population of the right demographics for being able to make peer connections.
There's nothing I enjoy and everybody seems to be focusing on the wrong aspects when they give me advice, all of it sounds more like a distraction that will only waste time rather than a targeted solution. Not just that but you keep saying I can just go out at any time and find things to do but my experiences seem to show the opposite.
Nope, you just twist my words into seeing me as a liar.
There is no “every time” you’ve done something because you’ve never gone out to just meet people and have casual conversation. That’s what you need to work on. That’s what it takes.
You aren’t trying hard, at all.
You can go out at any time, you are choosing not to.
You blatantly lie. It’s not twisting words, the things you type are blatant lies.
I have tried so many times over the years and can't find the opportunities. I keep trying and looking but I cannot find peers when I look. this has been an issue for most of my life and people always accuse me of lying and tell me that there MUST young people all over doing things. How the fuck am I meant to work on something when I can't even find the opportunities?
You have not. Stop lying. You’ve told me already that you don’t leave the house without your parents and when you do you don’t talk to anyone.
So you have not tried “so many times.”