Don't worry, I searched, and found one user who brought up porn, but also didn't say it was "our fault."

I've got a half baked theory that on top of everything you said - where these people come from cultures that place zero value on women and rape is normalised, I think the role of (western produced) pornography has an unexplored relationship with the mindset of foreign rapists. A good solid chunk of pornography features white western women and good chunks of the male population across the globe mindlessly consume it for years of end. When you then add this to the toxic mix of a foreign rape culture incompatible with British sensibilities, you can see how it spurs on their attacks, in their mind women are "asking for it" or "it's the way they are" and other gross assertions.

There's no blame being placed on the makers of porn or western culture, only an observation of how something may be enforced.