I just watched it. Is it woke, I don't recall seeing a black person in it. So the casting represents the population of Europe at the time. Is it gay or feminist, not really. Victor has weird attachment issues with his mom and the creature, but nothing overtly gay or feminist in it. I didn't see anything really pushing a modern progressive message.
It has Del Toro's gothic aesthetic. There were shots that showed deep green lighting I think are in every Del Toro movie. It has a lot of gore. People are treated like blood bags throughout the movie.
I think it's a good movie with some pacing issues. I think some parts are too slow and other parts happen quickly with little build-up. My biggest gripe about the movie is the Elizabeth character. She really doesn't add much and her instant attraction and love for the creature is weird. And personally I don't understand the fascination with Mia Goth, I think she's odd looking and a fair actress at best.
TL:DR - Frankenstein is a decent adaptation with gore and no overt modern progressivism.
Women aren't that different from men. They just can be more subtle about things.
Look at the pornography problem that men have gone through in the last decades. Where "softcore" stuff was enough for men to pay money just a generation or two ago, and now we have men with hyper fetishes that barely even make sense and an addiction to the dopamine rush of gooning to it.
Women's stuff went through much a similar path, where they dabbled in monster stuff that was still mostly human (the 90s-00s vampire craze was built on this), but it was all still heavily into the romantic, emotional angle that would be their version of "softcore" with Fabio.
Then they literally had hardcore BDSM books reach mainstream popularity and normalcy with 50 Shades of Grey. That became the baseline for their masturbation fantasies. So of course something already established like "monster fucking" would explode into some extreme levels afterward to keep chasing that taboo dopamine high.