Basically it comes down to education and income being a proxy for social class. It takes a lot of effort for people to form relationships across social classes, let alone romantic ones, and even if it happens there are dozens of barriers to a long-term relationship.
Anecdotally, I've seen this with most married people I know. You're more likely to see people from your social class and more likely to have good conversations with them. You can extend somewhat and this isn't set in stone, but the farther apart the harder it gets.
I'm aware of one famous exception, which is the champion strongman from Game of Thrones (Hafthor) marrying a waitress he met while traveling, but athletes are an exception since they don't have to be intellectual to make big money.
You could also argue that rich men marrying models is another exception, but I would argue a Trump/Melania relationship isn't actually that common, especially for a first wife. Also, some models are nepo products from rich families.
Next week maybe I'll take on the myth of moving to a small town and marrying a trad farm girl tomboy.
TLDR your average Applebee's waitress is most well-versed in smoking weed and TikTok reels so if you want to talk with your girl about other things then look for an accountant or something
Please crush that myth too. I have lived in rural areas and all the tomboys are hard partiers who date simps they control, and often have tats and drinking problems themselves.
Yeah, a tomboy can be disagreeable and aggressive like a guy, not to mention having a subpar standard of grooming and potentially a male sex drive. Maybe sounds hot, until it breaks against you.
People think all tomboys are like Tifa Lockhart, and they should be, but they need a classy family to get there.
Its literally impossible for them to not be massive whores after a certain age, and then all the consequences on their psyche that come downstream from that.
It takes a lot of effort for people to form relationships across social classes, let alone romantic ones
I find this to be somewhat untrue among men. Granted I'm still sampling mostly from college-educated, but from underpaid gov jobs to lucky/unlucky cryptobros, to dynastic wealth all seem to get along with one another just fine. It's not that big of a deal when no one is flashy or a braggart like "influencers." Or maybe I'm off base and "male nerds with BS degrees or dropped out" is a wealth-agnostic social class of its own, especially with gaming having such a low barrier to entry that there's a social activity anyone can afford.
A romantic relationship is an entirely different thing because your finances likely get comingled. If someone can't manage their own money, why on Earth would you ever give them access to yours?
No, I think you're on point. If men have a common hobby, they can bond pretty well. There's a few scenes that have a pretty high diversity of income, like car modding or even Warhammer 40k.
Basically it comes down to education and income being a proxy for social class. It takes a lot of effort for people to form relationships across social classes, let alone romantic ones, and even if it happens there are dozens of barriers to a long-term relationship.
Anecdotally, I've seen this with most married people I know. You're more likely to see people from your social class and more likely to have good conversations with them. You can extend somewhat and this isn't set in stone, but the farther apart the harder it gets.
I'm aware of one famous exception, which is the champion strongman from Game of Thrones (Hafthor) marrying a waitress he met while traveling, but athletes are an exception since they don't have to be intellectual to make big money.
You could also argue that rich men marrying models is another exception, but I would argue a Trump/Melania relationship isn't actually that common, especially for a first wife. Also, some models are nepo products from rich families.
Next week maybe I'll take on the myth of moving to a small town and marrying a trad farm girl tomboy.
TLDR your average Applebee's waitress is most well-versed in smoking weed and TikTok reels so if you want to talk with your girl about other things then look for an accountant or something
Please crush that myth too. I have lived in rural areas and all the tomboys are hard partiers who date simps they control, and often have tats and drinking problems themselves.
Yeah, a tomboy can be disagreeable and aggressive like a guy, not to mention having a subpar standard of grooming and potentially a male sex drive. Maybe sounds hot, until it breaks against you.
People think all tomboys are like Tifa Lockhart, and they should be, but they need a classy family to get there.
Tomboys have mostly guy friends.
Its literally impossible for them to not be massive whores after a certain age, and then all the consequences on their psyche that come downstream from that.
I find this to be somewhat untrue among men. Granted I'm still sampling mostly from college-educated, but from underpaid gov jobs to lucky/unlucky cryptobros, to dynastic wealth all seem to get along with one another just fine. It's not that big of a deal when no one is flashy or a braggart like "influencers." Or maybe I'm off base and "male nerds with BS degrees or dropped out" is a wealth-agnostic social class of its own, especially with gaming having such a low barrier to entry that there's a social activity anyone can afford.
A romantic relationship is an entirely different thing because your finances likely get comingled. If someone can't manage their own money, why on Earth would you ever give them access to yours?
No, I think you're on point. If men have a common hobby, they can bond pretty well. There's a few scenes that have a pretty high diversity of income, like car modding or even Warhammer 40k.
All women are worthless sluts if given even the slightest amount of freedom, they need to be made property.
Besides that money is the only way to even have a chance with a woman and women are only willing to date upwards.