Its basic Leftism. You are to deny your lying eyes and never put two pieces of a puzzle together.

I think one of the oldest pieces of that was them decoupling sexual proclivities from personality, where you cannot judge a "strong, independent feminist" woman by the fact that she enjoys being dominated, force bred, and other "classically woman" in private.

Except of course men, who any sexual desires are evil and proof of them being bestial.