...which usually results in them getting the reputation as annoying and unable to take a joke, or they can let it pass and be regarded as a chill girl who isn’t angry or woke.

So you're saying that lobsters mate better with other chilled blood creatures of the same species, and that women aren't naturally funny.

The girls I talked to say it’s riskier to...

Talk? Walk? Stick their thumbs in their mouths? What do girls have to compare against with any authority from experience? Sounds to me like you coerced young minds into agreeing with you which doesn't have protected PDF these days. Perhaps you should speak with women rather than children when it comes to asking for comparisons. Oh, that's right, women will tell you to fuck off and so leave the kids alone you harpy spinster filled with rage.