Sir, one, you can't "this user" about your own posts, and two, you can't "this user" my posts in direct replies. Please at least try to remember who you're speaking with.

Of course I can point out that I was making a reductio ad absurdum about the post by "this user". However, I will also point out that you are very polite.

For three, yes, women ABSOLUTELY should be wary of men. We are sexually DIMORPHOUS as a species. Men are in almost every case going to be larger, stronger, with denser bones, and with longer limbs then women. We have absolutely the absolute power to harm them, and there is generally very little they can do to stop us. This is why I make the missus train with and carry a gun, because that's an equalizer.

That's great. You're consistent. A lot of people here will refuse to apply their own logic whenever it's inconvenient to them. "This user" stated that one ought to be wary of a given group when "it's almost always" this group. And of course, when it comes to crime, it's almost always men.

But as you saw, pointing this out is not welcome to people, most of whom believe that men are victims by women.

We look over other guys in the street and make judgements. Is he possibly a threat? Can I take him? Can he hurt me? Am I with anyone I need to protect? Can he hurt them? Are there others? Can I afford to fight, or should we evade and flee?

In Chicago maybe. This is not the experience of anyone I know. Maybe late at night in very dodgy places.

So, no, it's not illogical or strange for women to be wary of men. It's like saying it's odd for the deer to fear the wolf.

I like that you actually have the courage of your convictions.