The problem is not the internet, the problem, is my father, the problem is my mother, the problem is that I had to grow up without one concurrent, present father in my life while being berated and yelled at by my mom constantly, and always being the target of nonstop shaming
it is not my fucking job to raise myself, but my dad made it my job to learn how to become a man without a father, my mom made it my job to become mentally stronger than she in SPITE of her constant belittling.
i’m just fucking sick of living the way I am, I hate everyone, I don’t have any actual friends, only 2, I don’t have any plan for my life, and I don’t care, I just don’t care about anything anymore
it sounds like I’m saying it’s everyone’s fault but mine because it is everyone’s fault but mine.
I do not respect my mother, I do not love my mother, I only live with my mother. There are good times, but every good time I have with her is overshadowed by an even worse time. My father isn’t even my father it feels like.
No one took any actual time to raise me, fuck everyone
Also just posted that he was a Nazi a couple days ago.
the problem is that I had to grow up without one concurrent, present father in my life while being berated and yelled at by my mom constantly
So like half of the dysfunctional kids in America, except he had a shit ton of money and stability to fall back on from that father regardless. Most of them had zero dad to even meet and a mom on all the drugs possible, so he is doing quite well relatively.
I want to feel for the kid, because that does destroy your world mentally and the money doesn't make all of that go away either. But whining like this says he didn't "become a man" in the slightest because he is playing victim like a teenager still. He isn't mentally stronger, he just broke himself in a way to stabilize.
However, I'm going to guess this will absolutely work for him. Because he is "famous adjacent" so girls will line up to fuck him and justify it with his little emo sad boy nonsense. Literally whining about how awful his dad is while coasting by on his dad's coattails.
I don't know anything of the situation but this seems more like a healthy calling-out of bad behavior. We need to shame more horrible parents and people, not complain about their grown kids complaining.
I don’t have any actual friends, only 2, I don’t have any plan for my life, and I don’t care, I just don’t care about anything anymore
These are not things that he can just throw off any responsibility for. Sure his parent's failure heavily contributed to it ending up being on his shoulders instead of having support and help to do so, but at the end of the day its your life and your decision to live it.
In fact, if he was forced to grow into a man already as much as he claims, he should already be planning his escape and life from it. That is what takes it from "healthily calling out" of his failure parents to wallowing in self pity for ass pats.
As I was corrected after this comment, he is in fact a teenager and not a young adult like I assumed, so its normal behavior. But its also not healthy for his own sake to enable that self-defeating mindset, even if it feels cathartic to see him take down his loser parents.
I agree with you that the self-defeating attitude is a problem he needs to fix in himself. I hope he finds a good role model and develops a more healthy approach to life.
My assumption is he learned the unhealthy tactic of complaining online from watching his parents. That's a big reason I try to shield my kids from much of the internet. My belief is that a parent must try to shield their children from their parents' mistakes as much as possible, while still teaching the children how to avoid making those mistakes.
Also just posted that he was a Nazi a couple days ago.
So like half of the dysfunctional kids in America, except he had a shit ton of money and stability to fall back on from that father regardless. Most of them had zero dad to even meet and a mom on all the drugs possible, so he is doing quite well relatively.
I want to feel for the kid, because that does destroy your world mentally and the money doesn't make all of that go away either. But whining like this says he didn't "become a man" in the slightest because he is playing victim like a teenager still. He isn't mentally stronger, he just broke himself in a way to stabilize.
However, I'm going to guess this will absolutely work for him. Because he is "famous adjacent" so girls will line up to fuck him and justify it with his little emo sad boy nonsense. Literally whining about how awful his dad is while coasting by on his dad's coattails.
I don't know anything of the situation but this seems more like a healthy calling-out of bad behavior. We need to shame more horrible parents and people, not complain about their grown kids complaining.
I'd agree with you if not for this bit:
These are not things that he can just throw off any responsibility for. Sure his parent's failure heavily contributed to it ending up being on his shoulders instead of having support and help to do so, but at the end of the day its your life and your decision to live it.
In fact, if he was forced to grow into a man already as much as he claims, he should already be planning his escape and life from it. That is what takes it from "healthily calling out" of his failure parents to wallowing in self pity for ass pats.
As I was corrected after this comment, he is in fact a teenager and not a young adult like I assumed, so its normal behavior. But its also not healthy for his own sake to enable that self-defeating mindset, even if it feels cathartic to see him take down his loser parents.
I agree with you that the self-defeating attitude is a problem he needs to fix in himself. I hope he finds a good role model and develops a more healthy approach to life.
My assumption is he learned the unhealthy tactic of complaining online from watching his parents. That's a big reason I try to shield my kids from much of the internet. My belief is that a parent must try to shield their children from their parents' mistakes as much as possible, while still teaching the children how to avoid making those mistakes.