One of my buddies growing up became a male cheerleader entirely to get chicks, and, while he was successful in that regard, it also turned him into a solid brick of a man because his entire life became throwing girls in the air and then catching or supporting their entire weight while never shifting his own. Thin or not, they were still 100+lbs.

Its genuinely impressive what it can do, but its a foundational role designed to diminish the attention on you. The exact opposite of what a flaming faggot wants.