Well when you realize that women or feminized men are writing these articles and arguing these points, it becomes more clear.

The lives of the military men matter not to them. The civilians will always matter more because of the women and (lesser so) the children amongst them.

They don't like the idea of dropping bombs on civilians because they get scared of the idea that they may actually be involved in the death and destruction that they're happy to support and vote for.

Much like how they love supporting trannies until you suggest they fuck one or that they are one.