No it doesn't. Women are, first and foremost, self serving and self focused. They view the world from their needs and wants and desires only. They don't comprehend the work you do out of their view, only what they are doing. When you show them how much the bills cost and how much it costs to keep her satisfied vs hiring someone to do what she does, it opens her eyes to say "oh. I see how I could be affected if I don't perform well, and I also see how I am being valued through his labor and my cost as well." Its not hard, and it works. I'm married to a straight dime who actually loves me, and we both respect each other's efforts which makes for less resentment or entitlement and more joy. The people not grasping this are also the people without that
I will brag about my wife anywhere to anyone because I love her and she is amazing. Maybe you should brag a bit more about yours, mate. I'm proud of her and love talking about her. She is a wonderful person inside and out.
You did more than just brag about her. You used her as a stand in for your argument to try and flex hard enough that it granted you authority.
Because your argument was so weak you needed "my ultra hot wife says it works with us and because she is so hot and loves me that means I'm super smart and can speak as an expert."
It was childish and pathetic, which tracks with your mindset about everything it seems.
No it doesn't. Women are, first and foremost, self serving and self focused. They view the world from their needs and wants and desires only. They don't comprehend the work you do out of their view, only what they are doing. When you show them how much the bills cost and how much it costs to keep her satisfied vs hiring someone to do what she does, it opens her eyes to say "oh. I see how I could be affected if I don't perform well, and I also see how I am being valued through his labor and my cost as well." Its not hard, and it works. I'm married to a straight dime who actually loves me, and we both respect each other's efforts which makes for less resentment or entitlement and more joy. The people not grasping this are also the people without that
Lol, lmao even. Between saying things like this and needing to brag about your "dime" that totes loves you, it really makes it hard to believe that.
I'm happily married too, its not some unique flex that makes you an expert on anything.
I will brag about my wife anywhere to anyone because I love her and she is amazing. Maybe you should brag a bit more about yours, mate. I'm proud of her and love talking about her. She is a wonderful person inside and out.
You did more than just brag about her. You used her as a stand in for your argument to try and flex hard enough that it granted you authority.
Because your argument was so weak you needed "my ultra hot wife says it works with us and because she is so hot and loves me that means I'm super smart and can speak as an expert."
It was childish and pathetic, which tracks with your mindset about everything it seems.
You sound like your wife is unhappy and your sons are circumcised