That's another. Make her pay for cell phone, meals, rent, power, internet, everything. Make her ask for days off and refuse them regularly.

Then tell her she's being replaced with someone younger that you can pay less.

and keep a record of every cent. When the divorce happens (and it will), she won't get shit because she'd already been paid.

That's the only reason to humor any of her bullshit. If it were me I would get my legal shit in order, wait until she's completely dependent on me and then disappear.