When you're losing an argument,

I can't say I've had that experience, but I do know you're a big fan of mine.

I'm pretty convinced at this point that it's far more damaging to women than just having the baby would have been

Probably. Having kids changes women for the better. The question is whether we want even more children of single mothers running around and being criminals. I say no.

I am consistently embarrassed when hearing the arguments from the pro-abortion side

Funny, I have the same feeling. For example, "IT'S HER OWN BODY". Not really, it is a separate organism. The question is if you believe this is developed enough to deserve rights.