I don't view bringing back sanity as caving to feminism

This is where we are differing. What most people consider "sanity" right now was post-feminism for decades. The normalcy was feminist nonsense being the default, which is where all the Woke seeds at.

Dealing with the tranny menace now is just cutting the grass with a weedwacker across 10 acres. By the time you actually accomplish it, the seedbed you left has already regrown it in some amount.

People have been more critical of feminism over the last few decades

No, they've been more critical of Woke Feminism. They are still 80% accepting what feminists want, and then call out the final touches as too far. Women being allowed to vote, divorce, exist without shame for sluttery and degeneracy are all feminism's gains and basically nobody but guys like me (a small number) are campaigning against that.

The "return to normalcy" is still women being sluts divorce raping men on the reg while raising babies single, and then voting for the Dems out of "empathy" for the poor browns. Them not being able to abort their babies or get a lot of free money from DEI policies doesn't change a thing about that.

But it does make people think they've done something, and then stop the fight thinking they've stopped the problem.

I think any pushback against progress insanity is good, and pushes the needle

The problem is the way being fought against this has made the Needle always going to one of their directions. The tranny problem only started being fought when women were effected, and all legislation is focusing in on that aspect of it. Feminism literally is winning by gaining extra protection for girls to stop the trannies.

Sure, look at it and think, hmm, but it shouldn't be a hard and fast rule.

That's all I am asking of people. There will be times when we have to benefit them, because women exist. But we should always consider if we are making the best choice of action in the larger picture instead of simply going ahead with the easiest destruction.