Women have painted themselves into a corner and they still can't bring themselves to admit it.

Because they don't have to. Based on multiple sightings of her with the child she didn't want it and was actively trying to hide it. Losing it like this is absolutely the best scenario she wanted, and is now trying to act devastated to sue the clinic (rightfully) for a shit ton of money for using her as a surrogate non-consensually.

So the end result is she got to go through a pregnancy once and is going to likely make back all her money she lost and then some, and will then probably repeat the cycle for another baby and has a solid chance of getting what she wants anyway.

They never need to admit it because society is built to prevent them from ever having to truly deal with the consequences of their actions, leaving most of them unable to do so whatsoever.