So I see a lot of thoughts not written out. I'm not sure what everyone is thinking. So I'll just say what I'm thinking.
I'm not thinking of murdering the exwife or the judge. I AM thinking kidnap the kid, buy a boat if he has access to enough money to do so (if not at least find smugglers who can smuggle you out), and flee to Argentina (or whatever country doesn't allow extradition to the US). Start a new life there.
Well, we can't outright call for violence, but I think some people are definitely thinking it. But I agree with you, and that was kind of my point; anything that doesn't work toward saving your son, and might land you in jail, should not be attempted until, at the very least, you save your son. And if you do, you probably don't do the other stuff, because your son needs his father.
So, yeah, we're in complete agreement; saving the son comes first. If you can't...well, then I can see how you might resort to other actions. As the top comment in this chain implies, a man with nothing to lose is a dangerous prospect. If you no longer have the modulating influence or the goal of saving your son, some other options might seem more appealing in comparison.
Family comes first. Revenge, if you still have the chance to save your family, is counterproductive, and just means you're giving up on your family instead of helping them.
So I see a lot of thoughts not written out. I'm not sure what everyone is thinking. So I'll just say what I'm thinking.
I'm not thinking of murdering the exwife or the judge. I AM thinking kidnap the kid, buy a boat if he has access to enough money to do so (if not at least find smugglers who can smuggle you out), and flee to Argentina (or whatever country doesn't allow extradition to the US). Start a new life there.
Just wondering what others are actually thinking.
Well, we can't outright call for violence, but I think some people are definitely thinking it. But I agree with you, and that was kind of my point; anything that doesn't work toward saving your son, and might land you in jail, should not be attempted until, at the very least, you save your son. And if you do, you probably don't do the other stuff, because your son needs his father.
So, yeah, we're in complete agreement; saving the son comes first. If you can't...well, then I can see how you might resort to other actions. As the top comment in this chain implies, a man with nothing to lose is a dangerous prospect. If you no longer have the modulating influence or the goal of saving your son, some other options might seem more appealing in comparison.
Family comes first. Revenge, if you still have the chance to save your family, is counterproductive, and just means you're giving up on your family instead of helping them.