Yeah, now don't get me wrong, I can understand having misgivings dating a person with issues especially if it's a veteran who will inevitably have PTSD and shit like that. You know for a fact though because it's a western women she's likely having way worse thoughts about him but the guy probably dodged a bullet as a result. I still remember seeing confessionals of women who stopped finding their boyfriends attractive when they opened up about real trauma in their lives holy fuck it gets dark.
Also, Ukraine is a prime example of why I would likely cause havoc for my government if they even attempted to implement the draft here. If nothing else to stick it to western women who would happily see me dead anyway.
Never ever believe a woman when she tells you she wants you to be totally open and honest with her and to lean on her for anything. It's a trap. She's trying to get you to reveal inner weakness. The lizard part of a woman's brain is always on the hunt for superior genes, and part of that is trying to figure out if you're actually strong, or faking it. Seeing a man cry or be depressed and hopeless, no matter how justified or understandable in real terms, will always be seen as weakness by a woman. Her trying to get you to open that side of you to her is just a ploy to get you to rat on yourself. It's no different than if a guy acts like he's totally cool with sluts and whores and never judges a girl's body count, only to be disgusted when she falls for it and reveals she's fucked 178 guys. And just as the guy might internally respond with "Alright, she's getting moved to the fuck-only box, never ever a real relationship", a man who reveals weakness is being moved to the "scam him for resources, never ever fuck or have a real relationship" box.
Nah, there's just a difference between stated preferences and revealed preferences. While they may think they want you to show yourself vulnerable, they are often disgusted by it in practice.
Not everything is a conspiracy...
Seeing a man cry or be depressed and hopeless, no matter how justified or understandable in real terms, will always be seen as weakness by a woman.
And by every other man.
It's no different than if a guy acts like he's totally cool with sluts and whores and never judges a girl's body count, only to be disgusted when she falls for it and reveals she's fucked 178 guys.
Yeah, exactly right. People often don't know what they really like.
Yeah, now don't get me wrong, I can understand having misgivings dating a person with issues especially if it's a veteran who will inevitably have PTSD and shit like that. You know for a fact though because it's a western women she's likely having way worse thoughts about him but the guy probably dodged a bullet as a result. I still remember seeing confessionals of women who stopped finding their boyfriends attractive when they opened up about real trauma in their lives holy fuck it gets dark.
Also, Ukraine is a prime example of why I would likely cause havoc for my government if they even attempted to implement the draft here. If nothing else to stick it to western women who would happily see me dead anyway.
Never ever believe a woman when she tells you she wants you to be totally open and honest with her and to lean on her for anything. It's a trap. She's trying to get you to reveal inner weakness. The lizard part of a woman's brain is always on the hunt for superior genes, and part of that is trying to figure out if you're actually strong, or faking it. Seeing a man cry or be depressed and hopeless, no matter how justified or understandable in real terms, will always be seen as weakness by a woman. Her trying to get you to open that side of you to her is just a ploy to get you to rat on yourself. It's no different than if a guy acts like he's totally cool with sluts and whores and never judges a girl's body count, only to be disgusted when she falls for it and reveals she's fucked 178 guys. And just as the guy might internally respond with "Alright, she's getting moved to the fuck-only box, never ever a real relationship", a man who reveals weakness is being moved to the "scam him for resources, never ever fuck or have a real relationship" box.
Nah, there's just a difference between stated preferences and revealed preferences. While they may think they want you to show yourself vulnerable, they are often disgusted by it in practice.
Not everything is a conspiracy...
And by every other man.
Yeah, exactly right. People often don't know what they really like.
I mean he clearly didn't or he would still have a leg.
Could have been a mine or a grenade.