You are advocating for self-identification as the standard. That is the Rachel Dolezal position.

They politically jewish; in the exact same way that Italians are politically black. Which is to say, no matter how the Progressive rationalization may try, it isn't fucking true.

I'll support them entirely as they seem to be much more on the level than those who are not, but until they do so our "disagreement" on it is worthless.

If you want to just end this conversation as "agree too disagree", that's fine. I would like to refer to them as "heresies"