evidence of pre-selection and dating/relationship experience.
I remember a time when having a divorce under your belt was a negative, or at least something that would give a person pause when considering them as a partner.
I remember a time when having a divorce under your belt was a negative
It still is in the case of women. It's hard to find a bigger red flag than a willingness to destroy a guy in divorce court. The problem is that the SMP is so distorted that men will overlook a women with more red flags than a CCP parade in hopes of getting their dick wet. With men it's a mixed bag. It's evidence of preselection which is great for a man's SMV, but it also means the previous bitch already looted the coffers so there's less for whore number 2 to steal.
Divorced middle aged men have better outcomes in dating compared to their long term single male counterparts. And it's for those reasons. It feels counterproductive because what you said sounds logical but we're not dealing with logic when it comes to dating, we deal with observations.
I remember a time when having a divorce under your belt was a negative, or at least something that would give a person pause when considering them as a partner.
It still is in the case of women. It's hard to find a bigger red flag than a willingness to destroy a guy in divorce court. The problem is that the SMP is so distorted that men will overlook a women with more red flags than a CCP parade in hopes of getting their dick wet. With men it's a mixed bag. It's evidence of preselection which is great for a man's SMV, but it also means the previous bitch already looted the coffers so there's less for whore number 2 to steal.
Divorced middle aged men have better outcomes in dating compared to their long term single male counterparts. And it's for those reasons. It feels counterproductive because what you said sounds logical but we're not dealing with logic when it comes to dating, we deal with observations.