The most unattractive woman has more options than the average male. And despite what red pill gurus in the manosphere will tell you, it doesn't get easier as you get older unless you have evidence of pre-selection and dating/relationship experience. Long term single men who are consistently striking out in dating won't have that.
I’m single and struggling in the dating department but I keep trying. I remember a guy making a point that pre internet dating an average looking guy could get together with an average looking woman, but now the average looking woman is flooded with attention. The times I could make it to a coffee date with online dating I imagine the date with me was one of many for them.
evidence of pre-selection and dating/relationship experience.
I remember a time when having a divorce under your belt was a negative, or at least something that would give a person pause when considering them as a partner.
I remember a time when having a divorce under your belt was a negative
It still is in the case of women. It's hard to find a bigger red flag than a willingness to destroy a guy in divorce court. The problem is that the SMP is so distorted that men will overlook a women with more red flags than a CCP parade in hopes of getting their dick wet. With men it's a mixed bag. It's evidence of preselection which is great for a man's SMV, but it also means the previous bitch already looted the coffers so there's less for whore number 2 to steal.
Divorced middle aged men have better outcomes in dating compared to their long term single male counterparts. And it's for those reasons. It feels counterproductive because what you said sounds logical but we're not dealing with logic when it comes to dating, we deal with observations.
I think college age has it easiest, especially if you are in college or have friends. After that, it is definitely harder. Old age just makes it easier if your income increases (which it does on average for most guys) or if you are okay with settling for less. Finding a girl who isn't a gold digger or slut is ideal but the good girl still has her choice of rich or poor guys, so she'll go as rich/other qualities as she thinks she can get.
College girls are some of the worst Chad chasers. They've written articles about "golden penis syndrome", which is just a fancy term they use to complain that college aged Chads won't commit. They blame it on the 40/60 male/female split, but of course they won't even spit in the direction of 38 out of that 40 percent.
The most unattractive woman has more options than the average male. And despite what red pill gurus in the manosphere will tell you, it doesn't get easier as you get older unless you have evidence of pre-selection and dating/relationship experience. Long term single men who are consistently striking out in dating won't have that.
I’m single and struggling in the dating department but I keep trying. I remember a guy making a point that pre internet dating an average looking guy could get together with an average looking woman, but now the average looking woman is flooded with attention. The times I could make it to a coffee date with online dating I imagine the date with me was one of many for them.
I don't know if it's this one, but it's good. He probably had another on that topic specifically.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VviwQeV0mo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iHr5tJhTgA
Thanks!
I remember a time when having a divorce under your belt was a negative, or at least something that would give a person pause when considering them as a partner.
It still is in the case of women. It's hard to find a bigger red flag than a willingness to destroy a guy in divorce court. The problem is that the SMP is so distorted that men will overlook a women with more red flags than a CCP parade in hopes of getting their dick wet. With men it's a mixed bag. It's evidence of preselection which is great for a man's SMV, but it also means the previous bitch already looted the coffers so there's less for whore number 2 to steal.
Divorced middle aged men have better outcomes in dating compared to their long term single male counterparts. And it's for those reasons. It feels counterproductive because what you said sounds logical but we're not dealing with logic when it comes to dating, we deal with observations.
I think college age has it easiest, especially if you are in college or have friends. After that, it is definitely harder. Old age just makes it easier if your income increases (which it does on average for most guys) or if you are okay with settling for less. Finding a girl who isn't a gold digger or slut is ideal but the good girl still has her choice of rich or poor guys, so she'll go as rich/other qualities as she thinks she can get.
College girls are some of the worst Chad chasers. They've written articles about "golden penis syndrome", which is just a fancy term they use to complain that college aged Chads won't commit. They blame it on the 40/60 male/female split, but of course they won't even spit in the direction of 38 out of that 40 percent.