Anon discovers the cheat code
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Pre-Selection bias exists.
Plus, there's the old stereotype of women coming out of the woodwork to flirt with you after you get a girlfriend. Women try to pass this off as 'because you're no longer trying so hard', but, c'mon.
So, yeah. I can absolutely see this as a thing.
Yep. And there's plenty of evidence to back it up. It's both depressing if you're single and looking for someone and nihilistic because it means that women prefer unavailable men over available men.
As someone who has stopped trying, "no longer trying so hard" is complete bullshit. Attention levels are less than when I was trying, because to the surprise of grievance studies majors everywhere, women want to be noticed and appreciated, and if I don't give a fuck about their existence beyond what is contractually required by my job, they don't care either.