Ter Beek, who lives in a little Dutch town near the German border, once had ambitions to become a psychiatrist, but she was never able to muster the will to finish school or start a career. She said she was hobbled by her depression and autism and borderline personality disorder. Now she was tired of living—despite, she said, being in love with her boyfriend, a 40-year-old IT programmer, and living in a nice house with their two cats.
She recalled her psychiatrist telling her that they had tried everything, that “there’s nothing more we can do for you. It’s never gonna get any better.”
There won’t be any funeral. She doesn’t have much family; she doesn’t think her friends will feel like going. Instead, her boyfriend will scatter her ashes in “a nice spot in the woods” that they have chosen together, she said.
Terminal atheism.
The Dutch chick in question is in the comments hotly disputing the factuality of the article (why does she expect people to care? she wants to kill herself anyway), but it's not clear exactly what facts, if any, are in dispute, beyond her objection that the piece made a value judgment about the rigor of Dutch euthanasia law.
once had ambitions to become a psychiatrist [...] depression and autism and borderline personality disorder
I don't want to disvalue psychiatrists / therapists in general (talk therapy is a scam, but things like exposure therapy for phobias is working), but that is such a prime example. Full of issues herself, but thinks she can help other people.
BPD girls are undateable. Unmarriable. They will always flip out and go self-destruct whore mode. They have to be an exceptional person to not only seek help, but to keep their shit together for more than 6 months.
It's viewed as one of the tougher disorders to treat. Even woke as hell doctors will grudgingly concede to calling BPO girls 'unstable' suffering from 'instability'.
This chick is a mental case. There has to always be an external reason for her self-loathing.
edit Life expectancy among BPD women is 20 years less than average.
Ex was a BPD thot (kept it under wraps until I was fully invested in the relationship). Slowly let the crazy out, more and more, until one day she admitted she slept with some random guy she just met at a bar. Complete trash that I took out to the curb that very evening.
Of course, that wasn't the end of it. You can't have a BPD ex and not deal with the fallout for DARING to break up with her holiness no matter what she did wrong. Suicide threats, breaking into my house at 3AM to "beg forgiveness", threatening to stab that "bitch" I was talking to at a party I didn't even know she was at, you name it.
Shit the only real reason I survived was it was overseas and my contract ran out. Flew back to thr states and blocked her on everything. She can't touch me now. It was never her I was afraid of. It was her pussy privileges in the justice system that worried me the most.
And yeah she made that blackmail threat of falsely accusing me of rape if she didn't get her way. Absolute fucking nightmare how much power crazy women wield
They are self-hating, self-sabotage incarnate, and the flailing drowns you with them if you can't get away. So many seem to be craving a violent death that they are goading you towards delivering. Mentally ill dudes do suicide by cop, BPD chicks do suicide by partner, and try to take you with them because of galaxy level co-dependance.
Terminal atheism.
The Dutch chick in question is in the comments hotly disputing the factuality of the article (why does she expect people to care? she wants to kill herself anyway), but it's not clear exactly what facts, if any, are in dispute, beyond her objection that the piece made a value judgment about the rigor of Dutch euthanasia law.
I don't want to disvalue psychiatrists / therapists in general (talk therapy is a scam, but things like exposure therapy for phobias is working), but that is such a prime example. Full of issues herself, but thinks she can help other people.
Women like this down go into therapy/psychology to help others. They go into it for self validation of their perpetual victimhood.
BPD girls are undateable. Unmarriable. They will always flip out and go self-destruct whore mode. They have to be an exceptional person to not only seek help, but to keep their shit together for more than 6 months.
It's viewed as one of the tougher disorders to treat. Even woke as hell doctors will grudgingly concede to calling BPO girls 'unstable' suffering from 'instability'.
This chick is a mental case. There has to always be an external reason for her self-loathing.
edit Life expectancy among BPD women is 20 years less than average.
Ex was a BPD thot (kept it under wraps until I was fully invested in the relationship). Slowly let the crazy out, more and more, until one day she admitted she slept with some random guy she just met at a bar. Complete trash that I took out to the curb that very evening.
Of course, that wasn't the end of it. You can't have a BPD ex and not deal with the fallout for DARING to break up with her holiness no matter what she did wrong. Suicide threats, breaking into my house at 3AM to "beg forgiveness", threatening to stab that "bitch" I was talking to at a party I didn't even know she was at, you name it.
As someone who has dated a sociopath, I am glad you survived. It wasn’t BPD but we are brothers in Team Gradual Revelation of The Cray.
Shit the only real reason I survived was it was overseas and my contract ran out. Flew back to thr states and blocked her on everything. She can't touch me now. It was never her I was afraid of. It was her pussy privileges in the justice system that worried me the most.
And yeah she made that blackmail threat of falsely accusing me of rape if she didn't get her way. Absolute fucking nightmare how much power crazy women wield
They are self-hating, self-sabotage incarnate, and the flailing drowns you with them if you can't get away. So many seem to be craving a violent death that they are goading you towards delivering. Mentally ill dudes do suicide by cop, BPD chicks do suicide by partner, and try to take you with them because of galaxy level co-dependance.