Most women seem to think men liking sex is an insult to the woman or something.
Unless he's Chad. The reason they find non-Chads wanting sex so insulting is because it implies that some subhuman beta is worthy of her magic vagjayjay and she's therefore not at the top of SMV/RMV pecking order.
This is definitely one angle. Another angle though is that women chase "Chad" when they are young but Chad only wanted her around for sex. At first she maybe didn't realize that but eventually it became obvious when she was only getting calls for sex, when the second she stopped wanting to have sex she stopped getting calls and whatever other signals made it apparent. The women though, wanted Chad to love her for her and to be valued for something more than sex. The women though were going for the wrong men. It would be like if men who wanted housewives kept going for prostitutes and then wondering why it wasn't working out. These women who went for Chad and only got used for sex then starts to see all men who want sex as being the same as Chad who pump-and-dumped her so she starts looking for men who don't like her for sex. Of course, the problem though is that all men like women for sex and ironically, the non-Chads are the guys getting sex the least so sex is more on their mind than Chad because they're desperate from not getting sex since young girls chase Chad not non-Chad (just like her when she was younger). So now, these men who might actually be good boyfriends who would love and care for the woman forever unlike Chad are getting passed over by women simply because these men really value sex since they aren't getting sex since these women never slept with these non-Chads and these women are mistakenly attributing the fact these men want sex to mean these men are just like Chad who only ever valued her for sex.
The system is broken. Women are the cause of it and they could be the solution but they choose not to be.
It's almost always mid women who are the most paranoid about (usually imaginary) "sexual harassment." Mids can make themselves fairly attractive with enough makeup, and especially on camera, but topple their jenga tower of cope and remind them that they're mid and they'll hunt you down like Stalin hunted Trotsky.
These are the same women who as kids would be the most vicious bullies to nerds and ugly girls, they never changed they just figured out a more sophisticated way to be the same horrible person.
I agree, but I think it's more that mid/ugly women want to be hot; and so they lash out at any perceived sexual harassment since, in their mind, the hot girls can reject and degrade men for hitting on them... so if a mid chick can freak out and bitch at a guy for hitting on her, then she is also a hot chick.
Actual hot chicks (in my experience) tend to handle dudes hitting on them and flirting with them pretty well since it happens all the time. They usually just ignore it or brush the guy off. It is always mid/ugly women that flip out and throw a shitfit; because they finally "get to" do so (since it almost never happens).
Yes but it's not just about her perception of her appearance but the main point is actually her perception of where she stands on the overall social hierarchy. u/marsupialLarge kind of alludes to it but seems to think it's about the mid chick finally getting the opportunity to cutdown some guy. No, the women cutdown the guy hard because she's scared of others perceiving her social status as being equivalent to the man who she perceives as not having high enough social status to want to be seen as being equal to. Hot women don't have as much fear of their social status being ruined by ugly men hitting on them because the hot women understand they're so hot no one would think the lower social status man has a chance with her and even if she gave him that chance, her social status wouldn't be impacted. The mid women fear that the lower status men will drag their social status down and overreact in cutting these men down as a defense mechanism and in an attempt to signal their status superiority to high status people.
That has been my observation anyhow. I think it has less to do with appearance/looks and more to do with perceived "social status" more than anything. Mid women are insecure about their status and want to be perceived as being high status. Looks obviously correlates with social status and especially for women. The men women can attract also correlates to status. But it's not really about appearance so much as it is about status.
Unless he's Chad. The reason they find non-Chads wanting sex so insulting is because it implies that some subhuman beta is worthy of her magic vagjayjay and she's therefore not at the top of SMV/RMV pecking order.
What's even more insulting to them is when a man they consider below them declines their offer to have sex.
This is definitely one angle. Another angle though is that women chase "Chad" when they are young but Chad only wanted her around for sex. At first she maybe didn't realize that but eventually it became obvious when she was only getting calls for sex, when the second she stopped wanting to have sex she stopped getting calls and whatever other signals made it apparent. The women though, wanted Chad to love her for her and to be valued for something more than sex. The women though were going for the wrong men. It would be like if men who wanted housewives kept going for prostitutes and then wondering why it wasn't working out. These women who went for Chad and only got used for sex then starts to see all men who want sex as being the same as Chad who pump-and-dumped her so she starts looking for men who don't like her for sex. Of course, the problem though is that all men like women for sex and ironically, the non-Chads are the guys getting sex the least so sex is more on their mind than Chad because they're desperate from not getting sex since young girls chase Chad not non-Chad (just like her when she was younger). So now, these men who might actually be good boyfriends who would love and care for the woman forever unlike Chad are getting passed over by women simply because these men really value sex since they aren't getting sex since these women never slept with these non-Chads and these women are mistakenly attributing the fact these men want sex to mean these men are just like Chad who only ever valued her for sex.
The system is broken. Women are the cause of it and they could be the solution but they choose not to be.
Women are way more solipsistic than this.
It's almost always mid women who are the most paranoid about (usually imaginary) "sexual harassment." Mids can make themselves fairly attractive with enough makeup, and especially on camera, but topple their jenga tower of cope and remind them that they're mid and they'll hunt you down like Stalin hunted Trotsky.
These are the same women who as kids would be the most vicious bullies to nerds and ugly girls, they never changed they just figured out a more sophisticated way to be the same horrible person.
I agree, but I think it's more that mid/ugly women want to be hot; and so they lash out at any perceived sexual harassment since, in their mind, the hot girls can reject and degrade men for hitting on them... so if a mid chick can freak out and bitch at a guy for hitting on her, then she is also a hot chick.
Actual hot chicks (in my experience) tend to handle dudes hitting on them and flirting with them pretty well since it happens all the time. They usually just ignore it or brush the guy off. It is always mid/ugly women that flip out and throw a shitfit; because they finally "get to" do so (since it almost never happens).
Good point.
Yes but it's not just about her perception of her appearance but the main point is actually her perception of where she stands on the overall social hierarchy. u/marsupialLarge kind of alludes to it but seems to think it's about the mid chick finally getting the opportunity to cutdown some guy. No, the women cutdown the guy hard because she's scared of others perceiving her social status as being equivalent to the man who she perceives as not having high enough social status to want to be seen as being equal to. Hot women don't have as much fear of their social status being ruined by ugly men hitting on them because the hot women understand they're so hot no one would think the lower social status man has a chance with her and even if she gave him that chance, her social status wouldn't be impacted. The mid women fear that the lower status men will drag their social status down and overreact in cutting these men down as a defense mechanism and in an attempt to signal their status superiority to high status people.
That has been my observation anyhow. I think it has less to do with appearance/looks and more to do with perceived "social status" more than anything. Mid women are insecure about their status and want to be perceived as being high status. Looks obviously correlates with social status and especially for women. The men women can attract also correlates to status. But it's not really about appearance so much as it is about status.