Out of 29 men, only about maybe 5 were policitically incompatible with her. Which would mean the vast majority are more in lockstep with her views. And yet she can't stand men who are easily triggered, do copious amounts of drugs, don't work, aren't legal citizens, or are into sexual degeneracy. All things that her politics encourage.
One thing I do notice about her complaints is that she never says the actual dates were bad. She just didn't like the guys. And while some of these guys do sound like they could be awful people or irritating to be around (though I need actual context to make a call on that, not some random chick's rants), others don't sound like they were bad at all; they just weren't the kind of people she was looking for in a relationship. If you don't like them, fine, that's your prerogative. Be as petty about your wants and needs as you like. But don't bitch about how awful your dating experience has been. The purpose of dating is for people to test the waters and see if they're compatible with one another. It's working as intended for you; your problem is that you call things off immediately for the pettiest of reasons.
And finally, list your dealbreakers on your profile yourself, like how you don't want children. Stop expecting everyone else to read your goddamn mind.
I think that women deep down know how some of their views on this shit make men view them so they deliberately hide this crap like with body count. I know from my own perspective there are women I've chatted to personally or seen generally when I know their views on what they think of relationships/family it's made do a double take on whether or not I even want to hang out with them.
I mean the kids example is a great one, when it comes to women who 'don't want kids' it's not just I don't want kids when they've done that they clearly actively dislike kids in general from the way they're talking and that kind of made me go wtf. I'm not obsessed with having kids or anything it would be nice to raise a family at some point but that's it I'm not a genuine anti-kid person.
It's no wonder she's struggling to find anybody, you know it's bad when even when these people are doing their own generous interpretations of themselves as people often do they make themselves look bad in their own damn posting, she is not a nice person.
Out of 29 men, only about maybe 5 were policitically incompatible with her. Which would mean the vast majority are more in lockstep with her views. And yet she can't stand men who are easily triggered, do copious amounts of drugs, don't work, aren't legal citizens, or are into sexual degeneracy. All things that her politics encourage.
One thing I do notice about her complaints is that she never says the actual dates were bad. She just didn't like the guys. And while some of these guys do sound like they could be awful people or irritating to be around (though I need actual context to make a call on that, not some random chick's rants), others don't sound like they were bad at all; they just weren't the kind of people she was looking for in a relationship. If you don't like them, fine, that's your prerogative. Be as petty about your wants and needs as you like. But don't bitch about how awful your dating experience has been. The purpose of dating is for people to test the waters and see if they're compatible with one another. It's working as intended for you; your problem is that you call things off immediately for the pettiest of reasons.
And finally, list your dealbreakers on your profile yourself, like how you don't want children. Stop expecting everyone else to read your goddamn mind.
I think that women deep down know how some of their views on this shit make men view them so they deliberately hide this crap like with body count. I know from my own perspective there are women I've chatted to personally or seen generally when I know their views on what they think of relationships/family it's made do a double take on whether or not I even want to hang out with them.
I mean the kids example is a great one, when it comes to women who 'don't want kids' it's not just I don't want kids when they've done that they clearly actively dislike kids in general from the way they're talking and that kind of made me go wtf. I'm not obsessed with having kids or anything it would be nice to raise a family at some point but that's it I'm not a genuine anti-kid person.
It's no wonder she's struggling to find anybody, you know it's bad when even when these people are doing their own generous interpretations of themselves as people often do they make themselves look bad in their own damn posting, she is not a nice person.