I think they know more than they let on but pretend otherwise because what they really want isn't socially acceptable. The only must haves are tall and good facial features. Everything else is very negotiable, and they only complain about the lack of those things when their relationship with Mr. Hawt Guy predictably goes up in flames.
A good rule of thumb is that when a woman makes a list of qualities she wants in a man there's a silent "but only if he gives me the tingles" at the end. Similarly if she makes a list of things she won't put up with in a relationshit there's a silent "unless he gives me the tingles" at the end. Women really aren't that mysterious if you know what to look out for.
What women find attractive is predominately (but not exclusively) genetic and inherited. Looks (predominately inherited) and masculinity (personality is half inherited) That's what is not socially acceptable because they're things you're born with and can't change. And society tends to make judging others on inalienable characteristics a stigma.
You can go to the gym, wear good clothes and have a well paid career, but if she don't feel the tingles (what hoe_math on YouTube calls being the "bad boy") then all that ain't going to account for anything and you can't override attraction and genetics with external factors, "rizz" and faking it (eventually she will find out and she'll realised she's been deceived and will then envision an exit plan) despite what the PUA's, coaches and gurus claim for profit. Trying to tell men that they can override evolution and innate female attraction with gym, touching grass and therapy is like telling someone that if they don't eat or drink, they don't need to go to the toilet any more. It won't end well.
society tends to make judging others on inalienable characteristics a stigma
Only if it values the group that's being judged. That's why it's still perfectly acceptable to shit on men for things like appearance or penis size. The body positivity movement was all about trying to shame Chad (or failing that a potential pay pig) into accepting fatties, uggos, and single mommies.
The real reason it's socially unacceptable to admit that genetics are pretty much the be all end all is because it undermines their AF/BB scam. Non-Chads aren't going to bust their asses to keep a society that hates them running if their only reward is a fat single mother who makes it her mission in life to punish him for not being the Chad that feminism told her she's entitled to. Since society would rather destroy itself than allow a single woman to be even slightly inconvenienced it's selling men a false bill of goods wrt female sexual selection in an attempt to keep this sick game going.
They want children and a partner with net positive in assets with which that can support a budding family. The problem is how conditioned they have become to believe that's a bad thing for some God forsaken reason. Companionship is one thing, but that's just a biproduct. The end result is the entire reason for hooking up.
Now all they can do is perform mental gymnastics to say what they want without saying what they mean, which results in a complete breakdown in logic.
Many such cases.
I think they know more than they let on but pretend otherwise because what they really want isn't socially acceptable. The only must haves are tall and good facial features. Everything else is very negotiable, and they only complain about the lack of those things when their relationship with Mr. Hawt Guy predictably goes up in flames.
A good rule of thumb is that when a woman makes a list of qualities she wants in a man there's a silent "but only if he gives me the tingles" at the end. Similarly if she makes a list of things she won't put up with in a relationshit there's a silent "unless he gives me the tingles" at the end. Women really aren't that mysterious if you know what to look out for.
What women find attractive is predominately (but not exclusively) genetic and inherited. Looks (predominately inherited) and masculinity (personality is half inherited) That's what is not socially acceptable because they're things you're born with and can't change. And society tends to make judging others on inalienable characteristics a stigma.
You can go to the gym, wear good clothes and have a well paid career, but if she don't feel the tingles (what hoe_math on YouTube calls being the "bad boy") then all that ain't going to account for anything and you can't override attraction and genetics with external factors, "rizz" and faking it (eventually she will find out and she'll realised she's been deceived and will then envision an exit plan) despite what the PUA's, coaches and gurus claim for profit. Trying to tell men that they can override evolution and innate female attraction with gym, touching grass and therapy is like telling someone that if they don't eat or drink, they don't need to go to the toilet any more. It won't end well.
Only if it values the group that's being judged. That's why it's still perfectly acceptable to shit on men for things like appearance or penis size. The body positivity movement was all about trying to shame Chad (or failing that a potential pay pig) into accepting fatties, uggos, and single mommies.
The real reason it's socially unacceptable to admit that genetics are pretty much the be all end all is because it undermines their AF/BB scam. Non-Chads aren't going to bust their asses to keep a society that hates them running if their only reward is a fat single mother who makes it her mission in life to punish him for not being the Chad that feminism told her she's entitled to. Since society would rather destroy itself than allow a single woman to be even slightly inconvenienced it's selling men a false bill of goods wrt female sexual selection in an attempt to keep this sick game going.
Woman acts like a woman.
Film at 11.
They want children and a partner with net positive in assets with which that can support a budding family. The problem is how conditioned they have become to believe that's a bad thing for some God forsaken reason. Companionship is one thing, but that's just a biproduct. The end result is the entire reason for hooking up.
Now all they can do is perform mental gymnastics to say what they want without saying what they mean, which results in a complete breakdown in logic.