Ya I do agree with other people having the right to discriminate and demonstrate preference for their people. It's natural and will not ever change. You're butthurt because you swallowed the Kool aid that it's better to be fair and give your's away, and now you're mad because other people have a brain and prefer to prioritize themselves and their kin.

Why would I have a problem with self/group preservation? Its pure folly to expect someone or something to destroy itself so some other organism can thrive in its place.