A while ago it was brought up the joyful circumstances of numerous commentors here being married or in some other form of relationship. Some even had kids.
Question for you all, how hard is it nowadays to be in one (relationship), or get in one? The red pill media has, over the years, become very black pilled and sensationalist on the subject. Granted, with ever increasing feminism and a decrease in tolerance for male behavior I have noticed it getting a lot harder out there... but ia it anywhere near as bad as they say?
While we are at it, what the hell does everyone do for fun in the real world? Prices have gone sky high in America, especially rent and housing, and over the years I have noticed less and less people go out, especially those in their 20s and 30s. I like to hike and explore so sitting at home doing nothing but play video games, read and watch tv drivers me nuts after a while. Granted, society seems less friendly and more shut in nowadays anyways. Still, there must be some clubs or whatever that people do for fun, even if not as frequently as ye olden times.
I'm 35yo. I got married and divorced in my 20s. I haven't had a relationship for about 7 years now. I haven't had sex without paying for it in 2.5 years.
I honestly expect to be single and sexless the rest of my life.
It's well passed the "just improve yourself" point. I make $150k/yr, I'm in shape, hit the gym, eat healthy, whatever. I'm not even in the ballpark. Problem is in fact my own standards. There are a lot of fat women with shitty personalities out there I could simp for and be rewarded with the grace of their fishy vag every so often. I have 0 interest in this. I like young, hot, nymphomaniacs that have a strong desire for me to put my dick in them. At 35yo, I'm well passed ever gaining access to these kinds of women because the women that meet my standards have a list of a 1000 different men who have more money, more entertaining personalities and better looks than me.
I find dating itself to be a complete waste of time and money. It's not even enjoyable. I'm at the point now where I've literally uninstalled all dating apps and I don't even put effort into trying to date anymore. I go out to try to meet new people and just try to find relationships the old fashioned way but when women my age who I find not attractive turn me down, why would I even bother trying to navigate an even more broken online dating system? It was always the same shit. Meetup, have a good convo, they ghost or didn't feel it. Rinse, repeat. Or I get catfished and don't want to call them again or I realize they aren't very sexual and require way too much effort to get into their pants. Their personalities are trash. Not worth it. If a woman is single in this society there's a damn good reason she's single and it's not to your benefit. Every single hot girl in this society is taken as soon as she's a teenager. There's very few exceptions. The supply of quality women is just way too low.
I even tried being a sugar daddy and just tried paying women but honestly, it's getting so bad out there average escorts and sugar babies want men to treat them like gold while they hardly treat the men well at all.
I'm heading to Thailand at the end of the year. That is basically my last attempt at enjoying my time with women. I pretty much hate all the women I've met my age and if I don't hate them then they either have 0 interest in me or they have so much baggage they aren't worth getting involved with.
I don't expect anything to get better in my lifetime. Even if things fix themselves, I'll be too old to enjoy it because as I keep aging, I still only find 18-25yo women attractive. I'll never be able to enjoy myself with a woman my age knowing she gave herself away when she was actually still physically attractive to other men when she was younger. I don't really find sex with ugly women enjoyable.
What do I do for fun? Nothing. I just do things to pass the time and I hope I die rather soon, tbh. Playing BG3 at the moment. Sometimes read books. Jerk off. That's about it.
You’ve never had sex without paying for it one way or another.
Bruh honestly you need to ask yourself why would any woman date or sleep with you to begin with? In your own words you say you don't put any effort into dating, hate all woman, and don't do anything for fun or have any pursuits or hobbies besides jerking off. On top of that you sound incredibly depressed and aren't doing anything to fix that.
So why would anyone want that? Like sure blame your age or society if you want but running off to Thailand isn't gonna fix the real problems your having.
No, that's okay. I already know with absolute certainty the problem isn't me, it's society. I will never change anything about myself, period. There's nothing wrong with me. Society is the problem. The fact you even suggest it's me just indicates to me, you are part of the problem.
How am I part of the problem? I'm not here writing six paragraphs on why a woman won't fuck me and saying things like "I hope I die rather soon, tbh". Society is not forcing you to think that, society is not forcing you to jerk off and do nothing for fun. These are your words and actions, not mine and you complain but then also say that you won't change anything about yourself.
There's nothing wrong with you yet no woman will sleep with you. Both things can't be true.
That is incorrect because who women will sleep with has no indication whatsoever on whether you are good or bad. In fact, arguably, women are trash; therefore, whomever women want to sleep with is likely NOT a good person. This is proven time and time again based on women's choice of men. That's why optimally, it should be the father who chooses who a woman marries not herself.
All I know is men like you are part of the problem and we'd be better off as society without men like you.