I figured it would be interesting/ enlightening to hear from users who have found happy relationships in modern society and how they met. I know how much we love to make hating posts on the stupidity of modernity, but posts from guys that have successfully found stable relationships despite the cultural zeitgeist is just as important/ informative.
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You don't want to hear about the reality of how it is for the majority of men who are average looking guys and are middle class.
I accept the skewed reality of the current sexual marketplace.
We live in an unfair clown world. No amount of complaining from me or anyone else will change anything.
It seems some people here want to just cope and hear only about the feel good outliers.
True, but I don't think the OP is one of those people. His takes on the SMP are very reasonable. As tempted as I am to bring MGTOW into this I think it's best to try to stay in the spirit on what the OP is asking for. There are plenty of other threads to talk about MGTOW, and you can always make your own if none of those interest you.
Considering we have posts daily about how much it sucks and doom and gloom, and this is the only "positive and hopeful" post I've ever seen on the topic, I cannot see where you think people only want to hear feel good shit.
But it does explain much about your failures that you find the slightest deviation from your 'woe is me' pity party to be a huge conspiracy against you.
KiA2 is where I go for upbeat romantic comedy hijinks.
I merely posted the reality of what the average man faces today with regards to pursuing women.
I am not demanding or feeling entitled to anything from anyone.
It is obvious that many of you here irrationally hate me just because I am a staunch conservative who happens to be a Trump critic.
It is obvious which people get mad at anything I write.
You clowns are pathetic.
Yes of course, everyone is in on a huge conspiracy of hate against you. That's why you can't get a gf.
We all know if it wasn't for these damn Trumpers, the girls would be flocking to a guy who talks like he just walked out of r/AsianMasculinity and his inability to let anyone be happy in his vicinity without making it about him and his pity party.
You are just pulling random shit of your ass now.
Talking about what the average male faces in a gynocentric society is not me blaming any of you clowns for anything.
The only thing I said about you is that you Trump 2024 clowns are always the ones attacking anything I say on this forum.
That is not some grand conspiracy. This is just you clowns being mad that I don't shill for Trump like you clowns do.
Survivorship bias - history is written by the winners (as determined by society and evolution. Both deem people in relationships and starting families to be the winner).