It's also influenced by how women are socialised.
Women are told everything someone does they don't like is abuse, meanwhile not taught that anything bad they do is abuse. So zero self-control is paired with this keenness to say everything is abuse.
I think part of it is a biological mismatch, they may desire the same sex, but that doesn't change the other parts of them that are still made for a relationship with the other sex.
The gay man community is promiscuous and bitchy for a reason, women aren't there to temper those impulses, instead they're trying to attract other men. If women were as up for shagging as men were and in the same ways as men, society would get nothing done and would focus just on sex, and so it is with the gay male community. But for women sex comes with higher responsibilities and different meaning, and so they (in a healthy society) guard it, they gatekeep it and require investment. To do so is their biological imperative.
Similarly, lesbians trend towards fat and angry. Not all of that is socialisation, even in a healthier society where women were socialised right you'd see higher rates of abuse in lesbian couples because there's no more stoic stronger partner and they're not attempting to achieve what men are looking for in a partner.
It's also influenced by how women are socialised.
Women are told everything someone does they don't like is abuse, meanwhile not taught that anything bad they do is abuse. So zero self-control is paired with this keenness to say everything is abuse.
I think part of it is a biological mismatch, they may desire the same sex, but that doesn't change the other parts of them that are still made for a relationship with the other sex.
The gay man community is promiscuous and bitchy for a reason, women aren't there to temper those impulses, instead they're trying to attract other men. If women were as up for shagging as men were and in the same ways as men, society would get nothing done and would focus just on sex, and so it is with the gay male community. But for women sex comes with higher responsibilities and different meaning, and so they (in a healthy society) guard it, they gatekeep it and require investment. To do so is their biological imperative.
Similarly, lesbians trend towards fat and angry. Not all of that is socialisation, even in a healthier society where women were socialised right you'd see higher rates of abuse in lesbian couples because there's no more stoic stronger partner and they're not attempting to achieve what men are looking for in a partner.