Gotta phrase it that way to make it look like a disproportionate response, because when you say "being dangerous and violent to multiple people" suddenly choking the aggressor out looks like a net positive outcome.

Absolute pacifism is slow (or sometimes fast) suicide, proportional violence in response to agression is fine and should be respected not discouraged.

People who argue you should never fight for your interests should be treated as either potentially predatory or incredibly stupid, either way they're a liability.

He got a free mocha instead of a cappuccino - it was that bad!