I'm one of them. My ex wife lost her mind on antidepressants and came very close to successfully murdering me. Now, after finding a good woman my life is better than I'd ever could have hoped.
Your analogy is one in which, because you burned yourself while cooking you declare that you'll never try to cook again. I don't think that's a path to success.
I think everyone dies alone. But you don't have to die lonely. They're very different things.
Sorry to hear about what you went through with your ex-wife.
I hope your current marriage or relationship stays this positive and works out long term.
I just personally don't think it is worth the risks and effort for me to search for a mythical "good woman".
FYI I am in my 30s, I am not 6 feet tall, I am only average looking facially, in shape though and I am an introvert, the odds of me finding a mythical good woman are extremely slim to say the least.
My wife is a wonderful woman and I'm blessed to have her. I fairness I'm six foot two, in good shape and a very good looking guy. Not to mention a veteran with a job that pays well enough that she can stay home. I won't say I'm not fortunate, although I also don't think it's just luck. What I am saying is that from my perspective, I'd have missed out on a lot of I had just thrown in the towel. I'm not inclined to do that as a general rule.
You can feel as if the risk isn't worthwhile. That's up to you.
I know I'm a high value man. I've got a woman who would be high value even if the SMV wasn't all distorted, she's gorgeous, skilled and God fearing. But it is and that's a big chunk of the issue here.
The value of women is absolutely cratered. So distorted is the marketplace that a woman who can cook more than just microwaving a Healthy Choice is a gem. The value of men has certainly gone down as well however, which is why women in general are expanding their age range wider.
I'm one of them. My ex wife lost her mind on antidepressants and came very close to successfully murdering me. Now, after finding a good woman my life is better than I'd ever could have hoped.
Your analogy is one in which, because you burned yourself while cooking you declare that you'll never try to cook again. I don't think that's a path to success.
I think everyone dies alone. But you don't have to die lonely. They're very different things.
Sorry to hear about what you went through with your ex-wife.
I hope your current marriage or relationship stays this positive and works out long term.
I just personally don't think it is worth the risks and effort for me to search for a mythical "good woman".
FYI I am in my 30s, I am not 6 feet tall, I am only average looking facially, in shape though and I am an introvert, the odds of me finding a mythical good woman are extremely slim to say the least.
My wife is a wonderful woman and I'm blessed to have her. I fairness I'm six foot two, in good shape and a very good looking guy. Not to mention a veteran with a job that pays well enough that she can stay home. I won't say I'm not fortunate, although I also don't think it's just luck. What I am saying is that from my perspective, I'd have missed out on a lot of I had just thrown in the towel. I'm not inclined to do that as a general rule.
You can feel as if the risk isn't worthwhile. That's up to you.
Your height, your level of physical attractiveness and your salary is just not something most men have.
You would be classified as a high value man in terms of the sexual marketplace.
I can see why you beat the odds and succeeded so far.
I know I'm a high value man. I've got a woman who would be high value even if the SMV wasn't all distorted, she's gorgeous, skilled and God fearing. But it is and that's a big chunk of the issue here.
The value of women is absolutely cratered. So distorted is the marketplace that a woman who can cook more than just microwaving a Healthy Choice is a gem. The value of men has certainly gone down as well however, which is why women in general are expanding their age range wider.