What is everyone's opinion on those far from weak, artistic motivation, you too can become an alpha male, man's life starts at 30 videos that have propagated all over the place on YouTube? Although some of the advice is all right, and men certainly can improve themselves, they seem to just be more of the old tradcon "man up and do your part" crap that the blue pill normies push, as well as the old "you too can become an alpha male if you buy my 6 dvd set" grift. They also seem to be a subtle way to try and push men back into the dating and work market place despite them being such shit holes.
Problem is, why would any man take any risk in such a society or try and protect it? And why not become a criminal if a man "lives in the dark" and his only role is to grind? These arguments don't make sense based on past healthy societies, as healthy societies always tried to marry men off at a young age to keep them invested in society.
What say everyone? Is this some sort of grift, or coordinated attempt to push men back into society?
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I did get lucky with my current GF, but is it lucky when I worked my ass off grinding dating for years? I dated literally hundreds of women. Probably 20-30% of them would have been workable as girlfriend material. Only about 10% were actual batshit, but that's where all my dating stories come from. Maybe 30% were totally fine I just wasn't physically into them, and about 30% were incompatible in terms of personality with me but would have been fine for other men with different personalities.
Typically, the only men who don't believe in AWALT are simps/bluepill men. Obviously, all guys in relationships believe in NAWALT but then if the relationship ends (which it usually does), that's when you'll look back upon it and realize AWALT was in fact true even for the girl you currently think is an exception. You're just in a transaction that's working for both of you at the moment but the nature of this transaction would actually confirm AWALT if you fully understood the transaction.
Yes because I've also dated hundreds of women and have guy friends who have dated even more than me without success as well. If all of us have dated that much then there's plenty of other men out there who have also. That seems to be the minimum requirement for men to even have a chance of success. A lot of men here have dated so much they've given up and hence went MGTOW. That means the probability of finding quality women is exceptionably low. As with most things in life, there's an element of merit + luck. You can't win the lottery unless you buy a ticket. You bought the ticket but still got lucky.
As for your stats: they don't align with my experience. Of the hundreds I dated, I think I found only 1 woman suitable for a relationship (she was 27yo) and we did date for a year but went our separate ways due to some incompatibilities but she was fairly solid overall and would make some other guy happy. Literally every other woman I dated was a failure and it was an extremely noticeable difference in quality between say 25 year old and 35 year old women in terms of personality. I used to dread going out on dates with women who were in their 30s compared to 20s because of all the bad experiences with 30yo women. I will say that I do think a number of the other women would probably be fine for other men. There's a lot of simps/bluepilled men out there that love that style of relationship. A good friend of mine is married with kids and hasn't had sex in months because his GF just doesn't find sex that enjoyable apparently. He says he couldn't be happier though. Sounds like a solid relationship for some guy who isn't me.