I think this is more like the tagline from Aliens vs. Predator: "Whoever wins, we lose".

JK Rowling is a serious feminist who supports their movement financially. She's got no problem with gays, she just doesn't want men getting in on those sweet gynocentric gibs by chopping their dick off.

I get it, Harry Potter has a serious following from people who are the right age when the books came out. I think if you're a fan, this is just another case where you're going to have to separate the author from their work because JK Rowling is no friend of ours.