Like once every few months. I can't say exact numbers. Maybe like 1/15? But I also was being selective on the 15, I wouldn't do this to anyone.. and you don't start off with that. You chat a while, get to know them, drink, etc... The point I'm trying to make is get the commitment from her first. Phone numbers are worthless on their own. Women hand them out like crazy.
Yeah, I don't think even ForeignInvader would recommend that you get girls like that to go to your place before having even their phone number. In a bar is different, because it is expected.
This is true. I evidently can’t even manage the “in bars” bit, myself (not sure why. Zero confidence? I don’t even get to the ask…), which is like… Well it sucks, let’s go with that.
So meeting women and actually getting anywhere really only happens when there is something mutually in common already, on most occasions.
Eurgh. It’s the worst thing.
Unfortunately I don’t seem to be getting better with this, either.
Like once every few months. I can't say exact numbers. Maybe like 1/15? But I also was being selective on the 15, I wouldn't do this to anyone.. and you don't start off with that. You chat a while, get to know them, drink, etc... The point I'm trying to make is get the commitment from her first. Phone numbers are worthless on their own. Women hand them out like crazy.
In the other comment, you talk about bars. That makes more sense. I thought you were at a mall and pulling this sort of stunt.
Yeah, I don't think even ForeignInvader would recommend that you get girls like that to go to your place before having even their phone number. In a bar is different, because it is expected.
This is true. I evidently can’t even manage the “in bars” bit, myself (not sure why. Zero confidence? I don’t even get to the ask…), which is like… Well it sucks, let’s go with that.
So meeting women and actually getting anywhere really only happens when there is something mutually in common already, on most occasions.
Eurgh. It’s the worst thing.
Unfortunately I don’t seem to be getting better with this, either.
I’ve never been particularly good at this. Particularly in that sort of environment…
What’s your icebreaker, lol?