This is true. I evidently can’t even manage the “in bars” bit, myself (not sure why. Zero confidence? I don’t even get to the ask…), which is like… Well it sucks, let’s go with that.
So meeting women and actually getting anywhere really only happens when there is something mutually in common already, on most occasions.
Eurgh. It’s the worst thing.
Unfortunately I don’t seem to be getting better with this, either.
This is true. I evidently can’t even manage the “in bars” bit, myself (not sure why. Zero confidence? I don’t even get to the ask…), which is like… Well it sucks, let’s go with that.
So meeting women and actually getting anywhere really only happens when there is something mutually in common already, on most occasions.
Eurgh. It’s the worst thing.
Unfortunately I don’t seem to be getting better with this, either.
Obviously, if you don't try. This may be something for you, from a rather interesting heterodox political science PhD: https://richardhanania.substack.com/p/how-i-overcame-anxiety