Instead of asking women for a phone number you should be asking to come over to your place sometime and then if they agree, you get their phone number. Don't go on dates with women, just bring them straight over to your place.
Ask complete strangers 'to come to your place' and then 'get' their phone number?
May I ask how often this has actually been successful for you?
Like once every few months. I can't say exact numbers. Maybe like 1/15? But I also was being selective on the 15, I wouldn't do this to anyone.. and you don't start off with that. You chat a while, get to know them, drink, etc... The point I'm trying to make is get the commitment from her first. Phone numbers are worthless on their own. Women hand them out like crazy.
Yeah, I don't think even ForeignInvader would recommend that you get girls like that to go to your place before having even their phone number. In a bar is different, because it is expected.
Ask complete strangers 'to come to your place' and then 'get' their phone number?
May I ask how often this has actually been successful for you?
Like once every few months. I can't say exact numbers. Maybe like 1/15? But I also was being selective on the 15, I wouldn't do this to anyone.. and you don't start off with that. You chat a while, get to know them, drink, etc... The point I'm trying to make is get the commitment from her first. Phone numbers are worthless on their own. Women hand them out like crazy.
In the other comment, you talk about bars. That makes more sense. I thought you were at a mall and pulling this sort of stunt.
Yeah, I don't think even ForeignInvader would recommend that you get girls like that to go to your place before having even their phone number. In a bar is different, because it is expected.
I’ve never been particularly good at this. Particularly in that sort of environment…
What’s your icebreaker, lol?