One drag queen talked to a 9-year-old and said to the boy's mother, "You are such an awesome mom for bringing your kid out to a family-friendly drag show."

This is how. Standard cult practice. Love bombing, affirming, and fawning over obedient women. All you need to turn women into your thrall is to flatter them and tell them how wonderful they are for doing what you tell them. Note: you have to have a lot of money and/or power and/or superficial charm for this to work.

From there, betas will flock to your cause because they think pretending to care will get them a crumb.

There's a reason the left consists almost entirely of single women and weak, pathetic men. They're incredibly easy to manipulate if you have the means.