If we're doing analogies it's closer to your enemy sending a child with a suicide vest to your house, and to survive you have to kill not the enemy but that child. Also it turned out it was your child. Most people would assign responsibility to the person who strapped the bomb on the kid so this aligns with what you said.

As far as cuck logic goes I'm not sure that can apply to females. Yeah if your wife is raped and you insist she carry, you're leaning towards cuckdom.