Unfortunately yes, but as I've said before, there's a real problem here.

Men shouldn't treat women like garbage, but they need to be stoic, disciplined, and strong; such that they can provide and protect those women.

HOWEVER, this is not where the obligation stops. Strong men need to teach women (because no one taught them before), that women have an obligation to men. That obligation must be to: inspire men, restore men, and build them a home/family/community.

Women can't do it themselves and no one ever taught them, so it's on us as their husbands and boyfriends, to demand it of them. And yeah, not ask, but to actually set the standard that they are to meet, and as a result we must meet their standards as well.