I'm a very empathic guy. When other people have problems, I don't want to hear them whine endlessly about them to me. Hence, I don't whine about my problems endlessly to them. Whining is a fucking waste of time that doesn't solve anything anyway, and people who do it don't actually want their problems solved; they just want a hugbox so they can be treated like God for a few minutes and to be assured that nothing is their fault.